Oh, this one's way easy...
This is most assuredly my "sensitivity."
It totally sets me off when someone says "you're too sensitive."
I'm not "too sensitive," and I should start correcting people- go ahead and tell me not to take things so personally, but save the sensitivity argument for someone who's a brick wall.
I admit, I do care WAY too much for what others think of me. I admit that I should call people on their b.s. rather than hold it in.
Being sensitive is assuredly a blessing and a curse.
A curse for it's nature, really. I can walk in to a room and feel the pressure or lightness of any person. Arrogant, maybe to say, but it's the truth. I carry what others say to me, and it impacts me greatly. It's something I battle constantly...reading people's moods via body language, facial expressions and general weighted shoulders is just who I am.
And I wouldn't choose to shield it.
Sensitivity is a blessing because it reigns me in. It makes me aware of my words, my actions and the general outlook for what's around me. I cry easily. I anger easily. And I console easily. I like to think of myself as a person who is sensitive to others' needs, wants, emotions, life circumstances and arenas.
Do I make off-color jokes? Yes, absolutely. I do have a sense of humor, but I will, all the same, go out of my way to ensure that the words coming out of my mouth are not fowled by a lack of tact and consideration of what other people may be going through.
Maybe I'm arrogant to admit it outright, but I do claim some pride in this.
I've been insulted by friends, for wasting my life by going to college, I mean, "everyone" goes to college, so what makes me so fabulous for attaining a degree? Right. okay...so...you don't want your kids to have an education. That's really what you just insinuated. Maybe I'm really proud of the fact that I made it through college, when a handful of people claimed I would never make it. Did you consider all of that before you made your ass comments about the nonchalance of getting a degree? No, of course you didn't. But I would have.
I've been ridiculed because I don't have kids and I'm not married, and am in no hurry to do so, so therefore I must be wasting my life. Know what? Maybe I'm proud that I'm waiting to get married, and proud of the fact that I've traveled, explored and become 100% financially independent. But I guess, you wouldn't have thought that far because you're not sensitive to the reasons why folks opt not to marry.
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This is most assuredly my "sensitivity."
It totally sets me off when someone says "you're too sensitive."
I'm not "too sensitive," and I should start correcting people- go ahead and tell me not to take things so personally, but save the sensitivity argument for someone who's a brick wall.
I admit, I do care WAY too much for what others think of me. I admit that I should call people on their b.s. rather than hold it in.
Being sensitive is assuredly a blessing and a curse.
A curse for it's nature, really. I can walk in to a room and feel the pressure or lightness of any person. Arrogant, maybe to say, but it's the truth. I carry what others say to me, and it impacts me greatly. It's something I battle constantly...reading people's moods via body language, facial expressions and general weighted shoulders is just who I am.
And I wouldn't choose to shield it.
Sensitivity is a blessing because it reigns me in. It makes me aware of my words, my actions and the general outlook for what's around me. I cry easily. I anger easily. And I console easily. I like to think of myself as a person who is sensitive to others' needs, wants, emotions, life circumstances and arenas.
Do I make off-color jokes? Yes, absolutely. I do have a sense of humor, but I will, all the same, go out of my way to ensure that the words coming out of my mouth are not fowled by a lack of tact and consideration of what other people may be going through.
Maybe I'm arrogant to admit it outright, but I do claim some pride in this.
I've been insulted by friends, for wasting my life by going to college, I mean, "everyone" goes to college, so what makes me so fabulous for attaining a degree? Right. okay...so...you don't want your kids to have an education. That's really what you just insinuated. Maybe I'm really proud of the fact that I made it through college, when a handful of people claimed I would never make it. Did you consider all of that before you made your ass comments about the nonchalance of getting a degree? No, of course you didn't. But I would have.
I've been ridiculed because I don't have kids and I'm not married, and am in no hurry to do so, so therefore I must be wasting my life. Know what? Maybe I'm proud that I'm waiting to get married, and proud of the fact that I've traveled, explored and become 100% financially independent. But I guess, you wouldn't have thought that far because you're not sensitive to the reasons why folks opt not to marry.
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